We spent Thanksgiving with Neil's family this year, and it was short but sweet. Neil's parents' house is the gathering place for any get-together, and probably a week or two ago they reminded us that they were going to be leaving for Hawaii the day after Thanksgiving, so it was a short trip.
First of all, I have to mention that Neil was so excited to get a deep pit finished in our backyard. That corner of our yard has been an eye-sore for the past 3 years (okay, not just that corner- most of the yard is still under construction- I sure wish Idaho builders included fences like in Arizona! There's no way to hide the mess unless you put one up!). So, he finished digging the hole he started years ago, and told his mom that we would provide a smoked turkey for dinner. But, just in case, he asked her to cook a backup. Good thing. Now, when we were first married, Neil helped the scouts with a fund-raiser every year that he served as the varsity scout coach. They would smoke dozens of turkeys in a huge deep pit in this family's backyard, and he loved it. He told me he always wanted to have a deep pit so he could smoke his own turkey and things. Then my brother-in-law put one in his backyard, and cooks turkeys every year for friends and neighbors, and Neil has helped with those. Those pits are in Arizona. I guess the ground is a little different in November in Idaho. Neil burned lots of wood, made lots of great coals, and set our turkey and some elk roasts in the pit, covered it, and let them cook all night. Thanksgiving morning he opened up the pit, and it was pretty cold inside. He took the meat out and we drove out to his parents' house. Once he opened up the wrapping, we knew it wasn't even done. How disappointing! Thanks, Mom, for having the backup! We enjoyed a great meal with family, played games, and made fun of each other one way or another.
Neil's dad offered me $100 if I would eat a whole spoonful of habanero hot sauce, and I almost did (he always pays up), but then Neil's mom told me that I shouldn't, seeing as I'm nursing a baby. Then everyone else agreed with her, so I backed down. His dad was so grateful, he told her, "Honey, I owe you $50 for saving me $100!"
That night we put the girls to bed on the hide-a-bed, and I guess in the middle of the night, Kortney got sick and threw up. I didn't even hear her, but my sister-in-law, Rhonda, did. She heard Kortney crying, went in to check on her, then got her mom to help her change the sheets, then bathe and change Kortney, since it was in her hair, too. The bedroom they were in and the bathroom they used were right next to the room Neil and I were sleeping in! Now, I wake up to every little noise Rhett makes, but I didn't hear a thing from Kortney or anyone else that night! I didn't find out that anything was wrong until I woke up to go to the bathroom much later, and found Kortney in new clothes! Poor thing! But she never had a fever, and never threw up again, so I think it must've been too much food.
It snowed up in the mountains that night, so our drive home on the dirt road was mostly snowy and slick, but Neil had fun freaking me out until he finally put it in 4-wheel drive!
What a great Thanksgiving! I'm so thankful for family, food, transportation, home, and the gospel. We are very fortunate to have all that we do, and I know that Heavenly Father looks out for us.
bed bath beyond kitchenaid
4 years ago



Wendy, Edith, Denise, me, and Karen after a family meeting (12 years old)
Edith, me, Karen, and Denise in '98

Handsome little guy
Snoozin' in the truck
Woah! Where'd he go?
In his blessing suit